The Research

October 7, 2010

Well, I bit the bullet and did a web search for “kama sutra positions”.  The first site I found http://www.kamasutra-sexpositions.com/index.html (Caution: it does have porn links on there) had quite a bit of information on foreplay and how to embrace, caress, and kiss.  I know that foreplay is important, especially for women, but really…even my search got interrupted by children fighting and a baby crying.  We just don’t have time to set the mood with candles and music.  So foreplay for us is usually me saying, “Close the door.”  Something else to work on, I suppose.

So what I’m really looking for are positions.  Something a little more elaborate than the usual “Climb aboard” missionary, which brings me to the “G-Spot Jiggy” courtesy of Cosmo http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/g-spot-jiggy-sex-position.  Familiar, yet unvisited in quite some time.  Honestly, I cannot remember the last time, so it will feel like new again.  We hope so, anyway. 

Now that I know what I want to do, it’s just a matter of waiting for or being able to create the right time.  At least I can say that it feels good to be in control of the matter.  I reminded my husband that I was working on my project and he said, “Oh, you’re still with that.  I really just thought that was another one of those things you throw out there to tease me.” 

I really need to follow through on this.

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